My boyfriend watched porn behind my back?


I had caught my bf watching porn a while ago and he said he was sorry and that he would tell me if he ever got the urge again and he promised he wouldn’t do it again because it hurt me….months after that I was asking if he had ever felt the urge and he said no…well just tonight he tells me he was watching…

Don’t dump him over that. I don’t like that my boyfriend watches porn either, but it happens. It’s way better than having him find a hooker or something that would do the “freaky” stuff that happens in porn. If he is staying faithful otherwise let him have this one guilty pleasure, it might even help him come up with new ideas to spice of the love life. If it becomes an obsessive thing, that’s when you should worry. there are counselors for it too.

Men watch porn.
Unless he is addicted to it and spends hours doing it, this is natural.
If you can’t live with that, maybe you should try women instead.

The moment you made him “guilty” about it, you guaranteed that he would sneak around you. You made it impossible for him to be honest with you.

I do not think you yet have the maturity or skills to make a relationship work. Yes, break up with him, and grow up some more.

I’m a woman, btw.

I actually find this problem pretty funny xD. Pretty much all guys watch porn, and you should know that’s no lie, I’m sure even you have watched porn before. Boyfriends lie to their Girlfriends because they don’t wanna hurt them, just like how they say they like your outfit when they’re just saying that to make you feel good, and girls lie to them too, it’s because they don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings.

Even my boyfriend watches porn, it’s just a video and it’s nothing to get worked up about, it’s not like he chooses porn over you.

Tell me you have never watched porn. Sounds like he has a high sex drive and you should talk with him about how you could help him with it, get more involved. He wants to talk with you about it but you threaten break up and he does not want that so he still cant talk to you about it. If you love him have a real conversation about it and don’t get offended about it, he will clam up again. He is not cheating and he is telling you whats going on, talk to him!

yeah, that stuff is important, not trivial, – It is a value that you have instilled in you, and you didn’t know he had that in him. It escalates into more and more porn, and then he will just keep going with it, addiction. It is not a ‘right’ and it is not true that ‘everyone’ is doing this. I would say right from the beginning get this little trouble secret out in the open with any of your relationships. Now your bf is lying because fantasy just grows. He gets uptight because he knows he is wrong. People defend this kind of thing because they are probably the same way. Well, its your choice.
But whatever your value is, you aren’t no.1 – his fantasy is, He is sort of like cheating when he wrestles his ever growing mental pictures and images of women doing stuff to him etc, and that sort of cheating to him is innocent because it is not ‘real’. But in his mind, it is real, and it affects your relationship. Honestly you have every right to have peace in your home not sneaking lying, non trust issues always at the forefront.

I always believed that when people watch porn.
It’s bc they are not sure that they are doing it right!!!
To your bf he maybe thinking that he wish that his sex life was the same as what he sees online.
Think about what could be missing in your relationship with him.
Women as well as men do have to go the distance for ea. other!
And yes!
That includes sex!!!
Sex is that silent form of communication.
Both side do have to monitor how are their relationship is from time to time.
You cannot take all things for granted.

If you don’t want a guy who watches porn, you need to be single.

Guys watch porn, expect us not to, and you can expect us to lie to you.
Porn is just a tool for masturbation, just like a vibrator is.

guys should be allowed to watch porn because people have fantasy’s you know and its a healthy way to relieve stress if you’re going to leave a guy because he watches porn then you will be alone for life.

Guys who watch Porn obsessively and can’t quit.. you’re going to experience a lot of negatives in your relationship and oh yeah, cheating usually comes right behind it.

Try watching it with him, it will spice up the love life 😉 trust me.

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